| Jennie's Story | |
| due date: 10/26/99 I am 22 weeks now. At my regular 20 weeks ultrasound, I was diagnosed with complete PP. The nurse called me a couple of days after the sonogram and informed me I was on "pelvic rest " (i.e., no sex, exercise, lifting) 3 days before I was to move!! Great timing. Two hours later, after having consulted with one of my 6 doctors (shouldn't she have done this prior to scaring the hell out of me?), she told me that pelvic rest was not necessary but that I was to have a 2nd ultrasound between 28-32 weeks. Nothing further. I didn't know what she was talking about at the time so I didn't ask any questions. I've already rescheduled an out-of-town baby shower just in case, but other than that, I haven't changed much in my lifestyle. I didn't lift TOO much while moving, but some things only I could do. I've had a terrible pregnancy thus far, what with all the common symptoms - and lots of them - but no bleeding. I kind of hoped I would get a break as time went on, but apparently not. I still have at least 6 weeks before I know if the placenta has moved or not, so is there anything I can do to relieve my anxiety until that time? My husband does not think we are in any danger, so talking with him is useless. But I'm anxious and going kind of nuts, not knowing what's okay and what's not. He won't have sex with me, either, even though the doctor said it's okay, and that doesn't help my stress. What do I do? (6/26/99) ******************** Update (7/21) I returned for my 2nd ultrasound this morning (26 weeks today,6 months) only to find that the placenta is still completely covering the cervix. I was shocked but not really upset. Maybe I suspected on some level? I still have not had any kind of bleed and my cervix is totally closed, which as I understand is good, since I can't bleed unless the cervix is open at least a little. They will schedule another u/s in 10 weeks, so it's all wondering from here on. If I don't bleed, my OB said I will go to 38.5-39 weeks before doing a c-section. I'm glad for that at least. They have no opinion on whether I will bleed or not - no one has said it is inevitable, so I am hopeful. They also did not put me only any more limited activity, which thrilled me. I can't limit much more! The baby is in great shape. He weighs 2 pounds and his heartbeat is 145 right now. He sounds and looks perfect, so that's all that matters. I'm also kind of excited about being able to choose the date I deliver and the doctor who will perform the operation. (My practice has 6, but I really only like 1). That's my story... good luck to all you PP moms out there!! ******************** Update (8/30) At 30 weeks now. I have another sonogram in 2 weeks to check on the placenta, but I think my OB has it is her mind already that it's not going anywhere, since her nurse called yesterday morning to schedule my c-section. We scheduled it for October 14 at 12:00 (38 weeks 1 day). I was glad we could do this early, since I could choose the date I preferred. Still no bleeding and Doc seems to think I may get away without any, though of course one never knows. Baby is getting pretty big (I'm only at 25 pounds and slowing down and I am HUGE) and he is laying transverse. It's pretty uncomfortable. But as long as he's okay... I'll survive. Only 8 weeks anyway. My OB will not administer steroid shots - I'm not sure why - so I'm not expecting that. Maybe it'll change if I have a bleed before 34 weeks, when they are not effective anymore. Everything seems pretty cut-and-dried - a totally normal pregnancy save the planned c-section 2 weeks early, which is FINE with me - I'm soooo ready to have this baby!! I think I'll be disappointed if it gets cancelled at the last minute. I'm very prepared for the section and not at ALL for labor & delivery. Is that strange? Well, that's my update... hope everyone is doing well!! ******************** Update (10/4) A day or 2 after my last update at 30 weeks 2 days, I started bleeding in the evening. I had just gotten out of the tub and was about to dress when I noticed blood on the carpet. We rushed to the hospital, where I ended up spending 6 horrible days. The bleed was relatively small. The night I was admitted, I was strapped to the fetal monitor and give 3 shots of brethine (the stuff is awful). I didn't even feel the contractions I was having! After a few hours in Triage, they set me up in a room and continued giving me brethine pills every 4 hours. By the late night, the bleeding had stopped and I was doing okay. But they gave me 2 steroid shots the next 2 days and kept me on the brethine until I was so ill, I finally started throwing up. I was miserable - they gave me so much saline in my IV that I gained 17 pounds. It was at that point my doctor switched me to Procardia, which also halts contractions. I immediately started feeling better and never felt badly again. During the hospital stay, I had a sonogram which showed the baby to be 4.6 pounds and 2 weeks ahead of his gestational age. I was ecstatic. But of course we still didn't want him to be born yet, so when I was released, I was put on bedrest indefinitely. I gotta tell you, don't take your PP lightly - bed rest SUCKS. It was boring and long and I started wondering if it was worth it. (Note: it WAS). But after 2.5 weeks of bedrest at home, my doctor allowed me to go to a wedding. I was fine all that night, but I was on my feet WAY too much, and at 1:15 the next day, I started bleeding again. This time, it was so bad, I was passing HUGE clots and couldn't even get off the toilet, they were coming so fast. We freaked out of course, and after dressing, my hubby and I flew to the hospital and checked in at 2:00 PM. By 7:oo, I had stabilized with some brethine and a catheter, etc. It was just like the first time except that I knew my doctor would be taking the baby that night. I was 34 weeks. She said it would be later, so my husband went home to pack a bag and my dad went home to shower. My mom stayed, but she had gone downstairs to use the phone when it happened. I was laying in bed, having contractions but mostly okay, when 6 nurses rush into the room and start making me turn this way and that. Then one called my doctor and she came rushing in. She looked at me and just said "Prep her for surgery." All they told me was that the baby's heartbeat had dropped to 80. Within 4 minutes, I was shaved, on the Operating table and unconscious - and my husband was at home feeding the dogs! When I awoke an hour later, drugged and feeling NO pain, my doctor told me that my placenta had abrupted, which is why he was in distress. But the baby was okay, and I was okay. William Campbell Jones made his debut on September 12, 1999, at 7:13 PM, weighing 5.9 pounds and standing 18 1/2 inches tall. He spent the night with me, but by the next afternoon, he had to go to NICU because he wouldn't eat and couldn't hold his temperature. They kept him 11 painful days, and finally he came home on September 24. He is doing great and growing like a little pig. Now we can't STOP him from eating!! After all of that, I finally had my precious baby, and I must tell everyone who might be wondering: You forget EVERYTHING when you see that baby. It is all totally worth it. Good luck to everyone. |
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| Jessica's Story | |
I'm 23 years old, and have a 2 year old daughter whose pregnancy was flawless except a misread ultrasound at 8.5 mo that showed her to be significantly larger than she was, and thus I had a failed induction ending in c-section. I'm now 16 weeks pregnant and have been diagnosed with complete PP, and possible abruption. I had spotting at about 2 mo, then at about 12 weeks I had a fairly major discharge of fluid and thought I'd lost my water. An ultrasound found no amniotic fluid missing and I was told it was probably a fluke. at 14 weeks I had a significant bleed with cramping and was sent to a specialist for a level 2 u/s, which showed the PP, and a collection of fluid (presumably blood), elevating the placenta on one side. My doctor has expressed serious concern with IUGR and pre-term labor, as well as the hemorrhaging associated with PP. As such, I've been placed on total bed rest till I deliver, which will be by c-section at 36 weeks if I don't go into labor or hemorrhage before then (this is 4 months in bed, only getting up to pee and shower), and, of course, if I bleed more seriously that time will be spent in the hospital. Still no diagnosis on the fluid discharge, and during the major bleeding, I had a second fluid discharge immediately followed by the bleeding slowing significantly down and no longer "gushing". Has anybody else had a similar experience? I've yet to find anybody with a case similar to mine. Also, any advice for not going crazy from back pain and boredom for the next 4 mo is appreciated. Luckily I have family that will live in with me to help with my daughter through this. (6/26/99) ******************** Update (10/10) After several months of bedrest, and several doctors gaping in horror at what they saw on the ultrasound screen, it appears nature has taken its course and everything has righted itself. It seems (although nobody will give me a definite answer on anything) that my previous c-section scar was still weak and possibly not totally healed up even 2yrs after my daughter was born. When the placenta went to attach this time, it not only was a full previa (covering the cervix and going up the other side a ways), but it also apparently irritated or partially opened the old wound on the inside of my uterus. This then caused major bleeding which both came out, and collected into a pool under the placenta causing a partial abruption. Eventually the blood in the pool clotted, and things stayed close to this state for quite awhile. At 24 weeks they said the placenta had moved a little, but they were still doubtful it would move all the way, and there was still damage to it overall - how much couldn't be determined, but it was sustaining the baby thus far. Then, at 30 weeks I went back for my next ultrasound and the doctor said that the blood clot had deminished and was almost gone, AND the placenta had moved well up and off the cervix entirely. And in addition to all this, despite my "damaged" placenta, the baby's growth puts her in the 75th percentile for how far along I am. Not only is she not growth restricted, but she's big! The doctor said I was no longer confined to bed, but that I should continue to take it easy since I'm so weak from all the time I've been on bedrest up till now. At least I'm able to go spend some time with my family outside of my room now. The only thing I'm facing now is, now that things are "normal" again, I have the option to go full term and have a vaginal delivery. This seems really frighening to me since there's a risk doing VBAC even after an easy pregnancy. I'm afraid that if the scar breaking open theory is correct, which seems the only logical answer, that there's no way it'll hold up to hard labor and delivery. On the other hand, it's going to be hard enough recovering from weakness from bedrest. Compounding a few weeks of surgery recovery on top of that while caring for my newborn AND my 2yr old doesn't sound fun either. I'm frightened to have a c-section, and frightened not to. All in all thought, I'm just happy that when it's all done and over with, I'm likely to have a very healthy perfect little girl for the effort. |
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